The Question of Size Part 2
For most men, penis size has always been a cause for concern. This is partly because the penis has been attributed to as the main symbol of masculinity. In addition, the proliferation of porn movies and videos that feature men with huger than average schlongs and women who contort and cavort with pleasure at such size also contribute to this fallacy of “size matters”.
Porn is porn. If rocket scientists get hired for their high IQs and science and math skills, porn actors also get hired for their physical endowments in the penile department. Comparing one’s tool to that of one who needs it for employment just simply isn’t good for you nor is it logical.
Also, and most importantly, studies on penis size show that almost 95% of men’s penis sizes fall within the average range of five to seven inches when erect. The other five percent are either smaller or star in porn movies. If you feel that yours is smaller than most, don’t fret. Most men in the general population are within your size bracket.
In addition, surveys on what women want from their lovers include kindness and caring, the ability to listen to their needs, shared interests, common values, and a sense of humor. Rarely is penis size ever even mentioned. Also, most sex therapists and experts report that women rarely, if ever, complain about their partner’s penis size. If ever there’s a problem in the bed department, it isn’t your tool.
If your real objective is to pleasure your lover, forget about the size of your penis. Be a better partner for her by listening to what she needs and being there for her when she needs you. Lastly, remember that people have sex with people not just organs. Your partner’s pleasure is not just centered on her vagina and you have other organs besides your penis that can give her pleasure. Explore her with your hands and mouth. Try to caress and kiss instead of just pumping until you’re spent. She’ll appreciate it more and you won’t know it unless you’ve stopped being so hung up on your size.
Category: Sexuality
